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Cheating - Don't Confess

I've noticed this trend in some of these blurbs but also on other websites for those seeking advice. Many times somebody will ask a question about cheating and wanting to come clean. Invariably, somebody will say that it will only ease their own mind and make things worse. It's not everybody, but always at least one. My question is whassupwitdat? Some people believe in honesty about the situation and I understand that because I identify with that. I'm trying to understand the other side. Thoughts?